Tuesday, 15 December 2015

Weekend Retreat to Johor Bahru

We set off early, having left Harry at my parents’ for the weekend. I was an emotional wreck, naturally, since it’s the first vacation away from my baby. Of course, I’ve been away from him before when I went on my short business trips but since that was for work, my mind was occupied. I cannot yet fathom the concept of being in a relaxed state of mind without my baby, but we wanted to give this couple escapade thing a shot and see if a weekend away for just the both of us will do us good.




We managed to drive all the way to Johor without any stops, and arrived at noon nicely. Our first stop, JPO! End of year is definitely a fantastic time to shop for bargains. Coach and Oroton being the best places to shop with practically 70% off normal prices. Awesome, awesome! We were exhausted just from the walk about to discover the stores there.

After an exhausting yet exciting 4 hours of walking about, we made our way to Thistle Hotel. The hotel’s situated close to Danga Bay and is in a quiet corner which was splendid, away from the hustle and bustle of traffic. Hotel is nice though furnishings are a bit dated. After a quick check in, we settled in for a bit, then I went ahead for my hour long massage session at the Thistle Spa. Ahh, a blissful experience I’ve not acquainted myself with for a while. A sensation I’ve completely forgotten.



After my relaxing massage, we decided on dinner at Restoran Singgah Selalu, a 24-hour forever packed and busy restaurant situated on Danga Bay. The food here was awesome. Truly, we were spoilt for choice. The menu’s humongous and the variety’s endless. Definitely a must visit when in JB. I was impressed by the large number of kitchen hands they have, its practically a canteen and they seemed so disciplined and well-structured that its practically like witnessing an army kitchen.



After all that, we were just zonked by the time we got back to the hotel and had a restful, restful sleep.

The next morning, we headed for breakfast at Fresh Restaurant at Thistle bright and early. The spread was limited, but tastes reasonably nice. I thought the Nasi Lemak was quite nice.



We made our way to Legoland, with the excuse to scout the place before bringing Harry with us next round. At only 10 am which is basically opening time, the place was already packed to the  brim and the queue up line was just so horrendously long that we made the decision to forget about Legoland. I was developing a headache just from standing in line and the intense heat, so definitely cannot imagine bringing Harry here, at least not now.

We had no other plans and didn’t want to bore ourselves off at the hotel since the Wi-Fi connection there isn’t the best, we decided to make another trip to JPO. Having mulled over some of those temptations from the day before, we made quite a few purchases at Coach and Oroton. After yet another 4 hours of walking about at JPO, I was truly exhausted from shopping! We went back to the hotel and we both had another round of massage treatments at the spa. Such bliss.


We were so drained that we didn’t even have the energy to drive out for dinner and decided on just a simple dinner at a nearby diner since the hotel’s restaurant described a wait time of more than an hour for ala carte orders.

That was pretty much our retreat, which turned out to be more of a shopping escapade than a relaxing retreat. I must remember to go for islands or serene, calming places where there is no excuse to shop and tire ourselves and force us to just relax and spend time with each other next time around. That said, whilst I was an emotional wreck ball prior to the trip, once we were there, it was actually enriching to spend quality time together, minus the parental guilt and minus the shopping exhaustion - just the two of us, just like before we were Mama and Papa. I guess its true what they say, on occasion, we just have to do some couple things and just be Husband and Wife, to re-connect and rejuvenate the relationship without the kids around. Not something I can get away with all the time, but hoping to at least keep it to a bi-annual or at least an annual tradition. Having full completely undisturbed sleep once or twice a year feels like a must have treat, after this experience. Ah-ma-zing!


Harry was perfectly fine and contented according to my parents, hence, don’t think he missed us that much. Haha. To think I cried buckets and worried endlessly for this one! LOL!

No comments:

Post a Comment